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Monday, January 12, 2015

Camera Pictures of Saturday's Outfit / Not Feeling Good Enough

This weekend was a rough weekend for me and while taking pictures for the blog. I just had a heavy heart of not feeling good enough. So I figured I would share my feelings and hopefully let others who feel the same way know they are not alone. 
I started this blog a year ago to have something of my own and to also share with other moms different outfit options at affordable prices. Once I started, I would look at other bloggers to see what I could offer that they weren't doing. I saw a need to showcase real life matters, on real life moms
(the ones who don't wear a lot of makeup and who's finances aren't huge) and to not go crazy on making my pictures look so professional. But when I would see their blogs I would doubt myself and question if I was good enough at this. I felt I looked so unprofessional, my pictures were so blah looking compared to theirs. My hubby caught me in deep thought looking at my phone and asked "what was up?" I told him "look at my pictures and look at theirs mine look so crappy" and he said " no yours look real"  Then a light bulb went off. That is exactly what I was trying to achieve. 
Now there is nothing wrong with the other bloggers. Hey if they have the time every day to get all fancy and dolled up. Cool. But what about those who don't? Do you feel bad about yourself? No you except yourself how you are and know it is OK to be real and to happy being you.
Society has it backwards and teaches us ladies, starting as little girls that "make up" and "name brand" clothes define us. That having the best purse and shoes are the thing. They tell us to wear our red lipstick and eyeliner. They make woman feel horrible for having lines, dark spots, blemishes, and bags under their eyes. Ladies the way I see it and it took a long time for me to get here. Love yourself and do not conform to the world and all its bull that it feeds you. We should focus on true matters of the heart. Like giving to others, teaching our children that they are good enough and  material things will not make you happy. We need Jesus in our hearts and follow his ways. 

Give and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give unto your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again. Luke 6:38

Here are my camera pictures from Saturday.


Thank you for visiting,
God bless,
Lea

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